According to a recent poll by the Barna Research Group, the number one question adults would like to ask God is, "Why is there pain and suffering in the world?" Many through the ages have abandoned their belief in God because of the presence of evil, pain, and suffering in their lives or in the lives of those close to them. In 1851, Charles Darwin's life set him irreversibly on the road to unbelief when his oldest daughter, Annie, fell ill. On April 22 of that year, she died at the tender age of ten. Darwin was devastated. Although his wife was a devout believer in God and Christianity, with Annie's death Darwin lost all faith in a beneficent God.
Those who deny the existence of the God of the Bible because of pain and suffering begin with the assumption that all pain and suffering is evil. However, if it can be shown that suffering has value and can lead to good in a person's life, then its presence would not be an argument against the existence of a good God. It is a fact that some good things can only be brought about in our character by suffering. What are some good things that suffering can do for us? Suffering can . . .
- Help us learn what is really important or valuable.
- Teach us to be thankful for our blessings.
- Make us more compassionate toward others who are suffering.
- Remind us of our need for God and bring us closer to Him.
- Remind us how terrible sin is. The ultimate cause of all suffering in the world is sin and rebellion against God.
- Strengthen our faith and build our character.
- Suffering can accomplish good purposes for others. Joseph suffered to save Israel during the famine (Genesis 45:3-8). Jesus suffered that He might "save His people from their sins" (Matthew 1:21).
Many other benefits could be listed. Consider the following Scriptures:
"We also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope" (Romans 5:3-4; cf. James 1:2-4).
"We know that all things [whether good or bad] work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose" (Romans 8:28).
"'My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him; for whom the Lord loves He chastens, and scourges every son whom he receives.' [Proverbs 3:11-12] If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? . . . Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it" (Hebrews 12:5-7, 11).
God's pledge is not that suffering will never afflict us, but that it will never separate us from His love. As Christians, we have the assurance that suffering is only temporary and one day we will dwell in heaven with God forever. Heaven, as described by the Apostle John, is a place where "God will wipe away every tear from [our] eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things [will] have passed away" (Revelation 21:4).